There is such concept in couples therapy
in which the couples are asked to stand or sit in front of each other.
And to repeat the words of one another.
Listening...
Then they are asked to re-do the fight.
A fight isn't necessarily a bad thing
If one is able to talk it out and learn from it together.
For it is part of the growth within the relationship.
That is how both are able to grow together.
It is ok and allowed to fight, argue, for that is how we get sober and evolve
We care for ourselves
We care for our combinations
Control or the lack of it
DOM, SUB
We as human are first and foremost to one another.
There is a conception rooted within us from the past. Like the nature of the close, far environment.
And today we are in the present building the future.
Wanting it to be all that is we've searched for.
And often the steps we take are harsh.
Not simple, not always the smartest, but we learn.
Look at where we are today.
And where we were when only met each other no one told us it would be easy, or that it would be plain & simple.
Nothing is built within a day
And every day that passes we create foundations for the building that will hold on for years.
In it, all the feelings of our own choosing shall live.
Often I want to fight with you subconsciously to feel how real it is for me having you by my side.
Just the way you'd like to pinch me.
When you want to feel me
And it's reality.
By Eli Dom
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