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how to build a Flogger, a common BDSM impact play tool, safely and thoughtfully:

Writer: Eli DomEli Dom

How to Build a Flogger: A Step-by-Step Guide

A flogger is a versatile and popular tool used in BDSM for sensation and impact play. Making your own flogger can be a rewarding project that allows you to customize it to your preferences in terms of material, weight, length, and aesthetics.

This guide will walk you through how to make a basic, beginner-friendly flogger with materials that are easy to find and assemble.

Building a flogger by hand allows you to create a custom tool tailored to your preferences. It’s also a meaningful way to deepen your understanding of impact play. Always prioritize safety, communication, and consent when incorporating a handmade flogger into your play.

If you’d like, I can help you design a specific style or give ideas for decorations that match your personal aesthetic! 😊


Materials You’ll Need

  • Strips of leather, suede, or faux leather (about 12-24 pieces)

    • Typical dimensions per strip: 18-24 inches long, 0.5-1 inch wide

  • A wooden dowel or metal pipe for the handle

    • About 6-8 inches long, depending on your preference

  • Strong adhesive glue (E6000 or another industrial strength glue)

  • Utility knife or sharp scissors

  • Ruler and measuring tape

  • Sandpaper (optional) to smooth the handle

  • Decorative materials (optional)

    • Leather wrap, paracord, ribbon for handle grip

    • Metal studs or beads for decoration

  • Drill (optional) if you want to add a wrist strap


Step 1: Preparing the Tails (Falls)

  1. Decide how many falls (tails) you want. A typical beginner flogger has 20-30 tails.

  2. Cut the material (leather, suede, or synthetic) into strips.

    • Length: 18-24 inches

    • Width: 0.5-1 inch, depending on the desired sting or thud.

  3. Make sure all strips are even and smooth. If necessary, sand the edges or use a beveling tool.


Step 2: Creating the Handle

  1. Take your dowel or pipe and smooth it with sandpaper to avoid splinters.

  2. If you want to add a wrist strap, drill a hole near one end of the handle and thread a cord through it.

  3. Wrap the handle in leather, paracord, or any material that provides grip and comfort.

  4. Secure the wrap with glue and/or small nails or studs.


Step 3: Attaching the Tails

  1. Gather all the tails and align them at one end.

  2. Apply a generous amount of glue to the top 1-2 inches of the tails where they’ll attach to the handle.

  3. Press the glued end into the handle opening (if hollow), or wrap it securely at the top of the handle.

  4. Wrap tightly with more leather or cord to hold everything in place.

  5. Secure the wrap with glue and, optionally, decorative studs or stitching.


Step 4: Finishing Touches

  • Let the glue dry thoroughly (check the adhesive instructions, usually 24 hours).

  • Test the flogger’s balance by holding it and giving it a few light swings.

  • Make any adjustments: trim the tails if needed or reinforce the handle wrap.

  • Optionally, condition the leather tails with leather conditioner to make them softer and more durable.


Safety Tips

  • Always test your flogger on yourself or a soft surface before using it on a partner.

  • Start gently when practicing, focusing on control rather than force.

  • Ensure your partner consents, and establish safewords and boundaries.

  • Avoid hitting areas with vital organs, such as the kidneys or neck.



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